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#1 harborpress

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Posted 13 July 2007 - 10:21 AM

We used to have no trouble importing the order files but then we got the message:

"Import. DBF cannot be used exclusively. Please try again later."

I'm sure someone got into something but I don't know who or what, but now I need to fix it. Does anyone recognize this message and know what it means? Can someone tell me how to make it go away so we can import again?

BTW we get the same message when we try to export customer names.

#2 fanlin

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Posted 11 May 2009 - 12:33 AM

sweet love taboo

 Itís not easy to have a great relationship with your boy/girlfriend, partner, or spouse. But itís not impossible, either ó it takes some work, of course, but itís work, work thatís a joy when everything comes together.

  A lot of times, though, the work isnít enough. We get in our own way with ideas and attitudes about relationships that are not only wrong, but often work to undermine our relationships no matter how hard we work at it.

  Iíve watched a lot of breakups (some of them my own). Iíve seen dramatic flare-ups and drawn-out slow fades, and Iíve tried to pay attention to what seems to be going on. Here are a few of the things Iíve seen that cause people to destroy their own relationships.

  1. Youíre playing to win

  One of the deadliest killers of relationships is the competitive urge. I donít mean competition in the sense that you canít stand to lose at tennis, I mean the attitude that the relationship itself is a kind of game that youíre tying to win. People in competitive relationships are always looking for an advantage, the upper hand, some edge they can hold over their partnerís head. If you feel that there are things you canít tell your partner because she or he will use it against you, youíre in a competitive relationship ó but not for long.wow gold,

  2. You donít trust

  There are two aspects of trust that are important in relationships. One is trusting your partner enough to know that s/he wonít cheat on you or otherwise hurt you ó and to know that he or she trusts you that way, too. The other is trusting them enough to know they wonít leave you or stop loving you no matter what you do or say. The second that level of trust is gone, whether because one of you takes advantage of that trust and does something horrible or because one of you thinks the other has, the relationship is over ó even if it takes 10 more years for you to break up.

  3. You donít talk

  Too many people hold their tongues about things that bother or upset them in their relationship, either because they donít want to hurt their partner, or because theyíre trying to win. (See #1 above; example: ďIf you donít know why Iím mad, Iím certainly not going to tell you!Ē) While this might make things easier in the short term, in the long run it gradually erodes the foundation of the relationship away. Little issues grow into bigger and bigger problems ó problems that donít get fixed because your partner is blissfully unaware, or worse, is totally aware of them but thinks they donít really bother you. Ultimately, keeping quiet reflects a lack of trust ó and, as I said thatís the death of a relationship.

  4. You donít listen

  Listening ó really listening ó is hard. Itís normal to want to defend ourselves when we hear something that seems like criticism, so instead of really hearing someone out, we interrupt to explain or excuse ourselves, or we turn inward to prepare our defense. But your partner deserves your active listening. S/he even deserves you to hear the between-the-lines content of daily chit-chat, to suss out his/her dreams and desires when even s/he doesnít even know exactly what they are. If you canít listen that way, at least to the person you love, thereís a problem.

  5. You spend like a single person

  This was a hard lesson for me to learn ó until it broke up a 7-year relationship. When youíre single, you can buy whatever you want, whenever you want, with little regard for the future. Itís not necessarily wise, but youíre the only one who has to pay the consequences. When you are with someone in a long-term relationship, that is no longer a possibility. Your partner ó and your children, if there are or will be any ó will have to bear the brunt of your spending, so youíd better get in the habit of taking care of household necessities first and then, if thereís anything left over, of discussing with your partner the best way to use it.

  This is an increasing problem these days, because more and more people are opting to keep their finances separate, even when theyíre married. Thereís nothing wrong with that kind of arrangement in and of itself, but it demands more communication and involvement between the partners, not less. If youíre spending money as if it was your money and nobody else has a right to tell you what to do with it, your relationship is doomed.wow gold,

  6. Youíre afraid of breaking up

  Nobody in a truly happy partnership is afraid of breaking up. If you are, thatís a big warning sign that somethingís wrong. But often, whatís wrong is the fear itself. Not only does it betray a lack of trust, but it shows a lack of self-confidence and self-esteem ó youíre afraid that thereís no good reason for someone to want to be with you, and that sooner or later your partner will ďwise upĒ and take off. So you pour more energy into keeping up the appearance of a happy relationships than you do into building yourself up as a person. Quite frankly, this isnít going to be very satisfying for you, and it also isnít going to be very satisfying for your partner.




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